The Four Letter Word That Equals Success
The Four Letter Word That Equals Success
Four letter words have gotten a bad reputation. I’m sure you can think of a handful of them right now. There’s one four letter word, however, that equals communication, camaraderie, and results. It has the capability to be extremely powerful, yet it often struggles to reach its full potential. It often causes friction, friendship, and frustration, all at the same time. What is this powerful four letter word? TEAM.
You’ve probably seen or heard the acronym for T.E.A.M. (Together Everyone Achieves More). Why then is it so hard to create effective, high performance teams? Because teams are made up of individuals, and individuals are imperfect.
I’m often asked how to improve teamwork, resolve conflicts, and improve communication among team members. There is a pretty straightforward formula that is simple in theory, yet extremely difficult in practice:
ACCOUNTABILITY + COMMUNICATION + PERSONAL LEADERSHIP = SUCCESS
The moment we start owning our actions and behavior, communicate effectively, and demonstrate personal leadership, we can accomplish anything, individually or as a team. Let’s take a look at each piece of the equation.
Accountability
While this has become a business buzz word, it simply means taking ownership, knowing that you can’t control anyone else’s behavior but your own. Playing the victim does nothing but frustrate yourself and others. If you focus on what you can control, YOU, it is much more productive.
Communication
We all communicate in our own unique style. Most people don’t try to intentionally miscommunicate, yet poor communication is the number one culprit of dysfunctional teams. Listen to understand, ask questions, adapt to others’ communication style, and most importantly, assume people have the best intentions.
Personal Leadership
Act with character and integrity, regardless of what other people do, and you’ll be a lot happier and more productive. Most of us know when we’re doing or saying something that is less than praise worthy. Would your mother be proud of your behavior? If not, it’s time to re-evaluate.
Teamwork is not just a skill. It is making conscious choices of our behavior and our attitude. It requires patient, persistence, and practice. Not all four letter words are bad. Some can equal phenomenal success!
True courage is being strong enough to know your limits. 💪
What an incredible role model, athlete, and human. We could all learn a thing or two from @simonebiles. #wednesdaywisdom #resilience #courage #strength #mentalwellbeing #mentalhealthawareness #simonebiles #olympics2021
What is on your to-do list for the week? ✔️
I’m sure it includes meetings, tasks, personal chores, and follow-ups, but does it include things that bring you joy?
We have an efficiency instinct - if I can just get everything done, then I'll be happy. Unfortunately, you will never get everything done that you have to do, so if this is your measurement of success and happiness, you will be chronically disappointed.
Instead of waiting for happiness, make time for things that bring you joy. #todolist #joy #happiness #resilience #priorities #gratitude #mindfulness #mentalwellbeing
Life is messy, yet you have everything you need to not only survive obstacles and adversity but get stronger because of them.
Your scars are there to remind you of what you have overcome. And remember, every time you fall and get back up, you can add that to the database of things that did not defeat you. 💪 #mindfulmonday #midfulness #resilence #strongenough #yougothis #getbackupstronger
Did you know kindness keeps you young?
Free radicals and inflammation, which are big contributors to the aging process, are reduced when you show love and kindness. Cheers to that! 🍻 #resilience #reset #wellness #wellbeing #mindfulness #kindness #payitforward
Our story is nothing more than a habit, and it takes practice to tell new, more productive stories. It’s also where resilience is built.
Pay attention to the stories you tell yourself about your life. If they aren’t serving you, it’s time to tell a new story. #resilience #mindfulness #mindset #yourstory #braintraining #habits #personaldevelopment #growth
Proactively working to cultivate gratitude, appreciation, optimism, and humor is a skill, and it will change your brain for the better. #mindfulmonday #mindfulness #resilience #gratitude #optimism #humor
Anne Grady is a Speaker, Author, and #TruthBomb Dropper.
Anne shares practical strategies that can be applied both personally and professionally to improve relationships, navigate change, and triumph over adversity. And she’ll make you laugh while she does it. Anne is a two time TEDx speaker, and her work has been featured in numerous media outlets, including Harvard Business Review, Entrepreneur, Forbes, Fast Company and Inc. magazines, CNN, ESPN, and FOX Business. She is the best selling author of 52 Strategies for Life, Love & Work and Strong Enough: Choosing Courage, Resilience and Triumph.
As usual, you got me to click on the teaser and read the post. Love starting my work week off with your posts. A coffee mug with the above graphic would totally ROCK my morning java!
Ha! Glad you like the post. Make it a kick-ass week!
As always, your posts pick me and get me started for the week. And this week’s ending graphic, with the determined and successful baby, is perfect.
Have a great week, Jane!
You always bring a smile to my face on Monday mornings and , wow, it’s Tuesday morning – even better! I enjoyed your talk at the EWTG last week, as did my guests. Keep up the good work. You are truly an inspiration!
I just adore you!
Love this! Our team had a great discussion about these topics last week so great timing and love the photo too.
Thanks, Janet! Have a great week!