While many find it awkward and uncomfortable, conflict is crucial to healthy relationships. Conflict produces better solutions, strengthens bonds, and provides the opportunity to see a variety of perspectives. Conflict is actually a very positive part of communication. Combat, however, can be dangerous. Conflict occurs when people don’t see eye to eye about an issue,…
DetailsIf I asked to identify how the person in this picture is feeling, could you? How would you know? It is the same skill that explains why some people atrophy while others thrive. Why some people have lasting, meaningful relationships and others don’t. It is a concept called Emotional Intelligence. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is defined…
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So how do you learn to lead more effectively from a roll of toilet paper? We all have unspoken expectations. In this case, it’s how the toilet paper should go, but in life, it can be just about anything. I have learned that most people don’t fail to meet your expectations because they can’t, not because they don’t want to, or not because they don’t care, but because they don’t know what your expectations are.
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ResilienceResilienceResilience Over the last several months, I have really come to appreciate the concept of resilience. Whether it be some personal roller coasters I’ve had to ride, those recovering from disaster in Oklahoma, or your own personal struggles, resilience is a is a concept that can serve you well. Resilience is defined as the ability…
DetailsRecently I spoke at an event where participants were able to send the speakers questions after the conference. I received some great questions, but one in particular really made me think. It was a simple question, but one that took me a while to answer. “Where do you want to be in 10 years”? I’ve…
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